Did you ever hear or read this?
Alice: How long is forever?
White Rabbit: Sometimes just a second.
This is what I realized when he left me, though it wasn’t a second but our forever lasted just for a few months. But those few months gave me a lifetime lesson which I want to pass on to everyone who is going through the same or have been through the same. Don’t be afraid of facing the reality, specially if you can see those things in front of you. Don’t fool yourself just because you “think” that person will never hurt you. Times changes rapidly and so do people. You cannot rely on one person for your happiness.
This is what I thought after a few months after my bad break up
I would like to say “thank you” to you for making me who I am today, this is all because of you. You left me on a broken path, a path which was full of thrones, a shattered, demolished and saddening path; you left me alone there with no other choice than crying. I was broken and sad, crying all day long, behaving like a stubborn kid, being mad on everyone I come across. There are very few people who can change you and you were one of them for me. I’m so lucky because you did all those things to me because in the end I’m way more than “just broken”. I still remember the good time we had spent together and it doesn’t make me sad. I enjoyed being with you, all those cute fights, your fake care, your unrealistic feelings, your unapologetic apologies and much more and I swear, I don’t regret it even a bit. Do you know why? Because it made me happy. Though the happiness was just for a matter of time but I was genuinely happy.
Then one day you realized that you don’t want me anymore. Strange? I was also numb at that time. How you spent so much time with me and then suddenly you realized I’m not the one you always wanted, I am just another girl, just another next door girl for you and now probably a mad and crazy ex-girlfriend.
It was a hard time for me but you know what I have learnt throughout the time?
That some people can never be permanent in your life, no matter how badly you want them to be with you, things take an ugly and sharp turn and boom! you’re out of track. You have to get back no matter what. Everything will be same except one thing, that one person you thought will be with you forever.
Some people lose there interest in life just because that special some leaves an empty place in their life and makes sucidial attempts which is the most stupid thing one can do.
Just close your eyes for 30 seconds and think about the other people who are there in your life except him/her.
Even if you get just one name in your mind, think about that person.
What that person will do without you?
How that person would manage the permanent empty place in their life that you will leave?
What that person will go through?
Think about your parents, your siblings, your bestfriend or your potential lover.
He or she left because they were not smart and strong enough to handle you; they thought you’re not worth but actually they are not worth your love. And yes this is true; they are seriously not worth your love.
Did you ever try to think why people leave you?
They leave because we have a better story ahead.
They leave because we deserve better.
They leave so that we can learn about life.
They leave so that we can know the real meaning of love.
They leave so that we can understand people better.
They leave so that we can make better decisions in our lives.
They leave to make us STRONGER than we were.
They close their doors for you but life opens another door for us, for a new adventure, for a new lesson, for a new beginning.
So Dear Happy Souls,
Make yourself stronger and experienced. Be an inspiration. Be a winner. Even if you’re losing it all remember one things, you are increasing your chances to be the winner next time.
This is the reason I am thankful to him who left me and made me a strong, confident and happy person who can tell the difference between real and fake, who cannot be fooled once again.
It’s totally your choice to be a better person and live a happy life or live a miserable life and push yourself in the hell of depression.
Trust in yourself.
You come alone in this world and You leave alone. Just think why do you need somebody to help you to leave? Help yourself.
A person who genuinely loves you will not ask you for big things, he/she will be happy just with your smile.